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Before the Information Age came along and allowed everyone to get their point across. Men who wanted to improve there success with women could write in to Dear Abby for advice or ask a female friend to give her opinion.

So men everywhere received advice from women on how to attract women that was just plain bad or wrong, which only allowed them to get women who are attracted to him in the first place.

For the average guy this means about 10 percent of the available women. Which doesn’t sound great, you also must realize that he is only going to be attracted about 10 percent of those women. That’s about 1 in every 1000 women who he finds attractive will find him attractive.

Yet, the advice that women give no matter how hard they try is going to be based on a man they already have a connection with. What is more the information they give you is what they would like a man to do even though 90 percent of the men they date do little if any of the things she mentions.

What this essentially means is any advice that you get from a woman is going to be useful for that 1 in a thousand girl whom you can already impress just by being yourself.

At least now we know that women are being honest about telling us just to be ourselves to attract women.

However what we have begun to see recently with men teaching men how to attract women, are ways in which you can get that 80 percent of women that don’t like or dislike you.

In addition most good seduction books are going to teach you that practicing on that other 80 percent of the 10 percent that like you is good as well.

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While some people can afford the “money is no object” attitude when planning their wedding, most people have some sort of budget in mind or at least a number that scares them. Since there are so many aspects to a wedding where you really shouldn’t cut corners to keep an elegant appearance, one area you can pull in the reins a little is the invitations.

A very well organized bride/groom/wedding planner will have this ironed out well in advance of the big day. It’s important to have the invitations chosen with enough time to mail them to your respective guests. Here, you’ll be able to find some easy and reasonable ways to send your guests elegant, inexpensive wedding invitations to your big day!

The first method that I want to discuss is making wedding invitations at home. There are several different ways you can go about this. First, go to your local office and/or art supply stores to find some sensibly priced decorative paper of your choice. Remember to buy enough for all the invitations plus a little extra for mistakes, 10% extra should cover you. Another good idea while you’re there is to pick up some nice envelopes as well. This will dress it up if you do not want to use a generic envelope.

Next, you’ll need to decide if you or someone you know is capable with a calligraphy pen or if you’ll be doing these on your home computer. I suggest using your computer because it will provide you with many more options and it is a lot less time consuming. Using your PC, you can search for “free invitation templates” or any combination of these words to give endless possibilities. A few of the websites I like to use are www.southworth.com or www.thepapermillstore.com. Here, you can get loads of different ideas and templates to print your own inexpensive wedding invitations in the comfort of your own home! Of course there are other ways to go about it.

If you prefer not to use your printer or ink and would like a quicker way to get inexpensive wedding invitations, you could, of course, try your neighborhood party supply store. However, they may be limited on selection and can get a little pricey at times. On the internet, several places to search are wholesale or overstock websites for great deals. Just be sure to check their stock to see if there are enough wedding invitations to cover your guest list, plus I recommend buying 10% extra, just in case.

Whatever way you choose to save, it’s safe to say that your inexpensive wedding invitations are the perfect way to help keep the cost of your wedding closer to your budget. It’s also a good idea to plan ahead and do some shopping around. As long as you keep an open mind, you can find endless creative ways to compose your inexpensive wedding invitations and make a statement about your upcoming nuptials.

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For the over 50% of marriages that end in divorce, Christmas can be a hugely trying time.

Since the season is one of the most stressful times of the year anyway, this onslaught of raw emotion to the divorcee can be overwhelming. This is reflected in the Christmas surge of suicide rates.

The feelings are that much more intense if there are kids involved.

I know for myself, nothing could have prepared for me for the crushing sadness I felt during my first post-divorce Christmas.

As a father of two young girls, it was like I was emotionally disconnected from everyone. The joy of the season was something I just switched on, for brief periods, when my little girls were at my house leading up the holidays. When they would leave until their next visit, the joyful glow of the Christmas lights and Christmas tree seemed to turn cruel and I would turn it all off.

It seemed I had an inverse reaction to the level of season joy around me: the higher it was, the worse I felt.

Going to the shopping malls, alone, just intensified the feelings of disconnect, as I watched parades of children that weren’t mine, going through the usual excited frenzy.

I remember sitting on my couch, alone in the dark, watching movies on Christmas Eve, counting down the hours until the girls arrived on Christmas Day at Noon.

In the middle of the night of that first Christmas Eve, I reached my lowest of lowest and for the briefest of seconds, dark thoughts crossed my alcohol free mind about putting an end to the pain.

Mercifully, I did nothing except scare myself. In fact, because now I appreciated how intense all of the feelings were, I knew I needed a plan to get through the season the next time.

From that point on, I came up with the following five step plan.

Step 1 – Do not be alone. You have to reach out and ask for support, from family, friends or whoever. The Crisis Line is always there to re-assure you (I know).

Step 2 – Know you are not alone and connect with other people in your same circumstance. I met several people over the next year, male and female, who were in the same boat as I was. We actually had a house party on Christmas Eve the next year because no one had their kids. Everyone had a few laughs, cursed the Exs and yearned for their kids, together. It actually was a great feeling to be in that group.

Step 3 – Do not feel guilty. Your kids are enjoying two Christmas celebrations instead of just one. What kid wouldn’t love that?

Step 4 – Give to charity or volunteer at the Food Bank. This really helped me appreciate that even in my sadness, I still had food and a home and there were people way worse off then I was.

Step 5 – Don’t be so hard on yourself. From the time we were kids, the Christmas season commercial frenzy creates a ton of expectations in all of us. During divorce, with your own kids jumping between houses, those expectations become very difficult if not impossible to maintain. This compounds the feeling of being a failure because you cannot emotionally keep pace with the joy you see around you.

That can be further complicated by the game of trying to keep up with whatever your Ex Spouse is able to provide for kids during the season. This one can be really hard too.

Over my 5 single Christmas seasons, I learned a whole new way of appreciating the season.

I started to celebrate the fact that I was surviving on my own, learning to live my life differently and being a fantastic father every 2nd week.

Christmas became less about gifts and more about patting myself on the back for keeping it all together.

That attitude shift made a world of difference.

I truly learned that the biggest gift you can give the people around you, especially your kids, is your own survival. That’s what they’ll always remember.

Drew Harris is now happily re-married and runs single-christiansite.com single-christiansite.com, a one-stop-shop relationship portal for Christians and like-minded people. It features hundreds of pages on dating, love and marriage. Start building your successful relationship today. single-christiansite.com single-christiansite.com

Ok look…

How to get yourself a girlfriend is actually pretty simple if you know what women are looking for in a guy. To be honest, I can tell you right now WHY you haven’t found a girlfriend yet.

See, you may have found a special woman you WOULD LIKE to be with, but she just doesn’t feel attracted to you.

She does NOT feel the same way towards you than you do to her.

How come?

Because you didn’t give a woman what she needs to feel sexually attracted to you. She may think you’re a nice guy and a good friend, but that’s as far as it goes. She doesn’t see you as a potential boyfriend or lover.

And that really sucks … so we need to change that.

So what are you doing wrong? What is it that makes women tell you that “you are a nice guy, but not really for her”?

Well for once…you are a god-damn wussbag!

A woman doesn’t reject a man if he doesn’t have anything to offer to a her like money, a muscular body, a fancy sports-car and good-looks. That’s not the case even thought everybody thinks that way.

It’s not because women think you are a weirdo or you dress like a bum.

It’s not because you think all those stunning women are out of your league.

There I something else.

You haven’t found a girlfriend or a woman that loves you for who you are because you are just being yourself…no, no.

It’s because women don’t like men who act like wimps and clingy nice-guys.

Now…READ MY LIPS: You are a wimp!!

See, you have been YOURSELF all your life…and has it worked? Not really. But you don’t want to become a different person either and I respect that. The good thing is, you won’t have to change at all … you just need to IMPROVE!

I need to show you what really works with women, and give you the necessary knowledge and some of my killer dating tips that actually work in the real world.

Not just any kind of dating tips…I am going to show you how ANYBODY, regardless of how rich, tall or handsome you are can meet and date the kind of women you always wanted!

So why don’t you have a girlfriend yet?

Because nobody has ever told you what to do to successfully attract women. How could you? Most men aren’t born with the gift of making women laugh, giggle and sweeping them off their feet.

It is an art, and if you’ve never really understood why women pick certain men over others, you have some learning to do.

So here’s what I want you to do:

STOP being a wuss!

Don’t kiss a woman’s ass.

Don’t buy them drinks.

Don’t pay them any compliments.

Don’t invite them to dinner or to the movies.

Don’t bring flowers, chocolate, a cuddly-toy or ANYTHING at all!

It only shows a woman that you are a clingy, needy nice-guy who wants to BUY a woman’s affection…and attraction cannot be bought, EVER!

If you do, she will either walk all over you or just tell you that you are a nice guy, but “let’s rather be friends!”. And here’s another thing. The more you want sex from her, a long-term relationship or even just a kiss … the less you will get it.

Women don’t like what they can have right away. If you are too pushy, needy and “easy-to-get”, you are not a challenge for any woman and therefore BORING!

The key is to be interesting!

So STOP what you are doing RIGHT NOW…and get it right!

Nick Shane is a street-smart Dating-Expert and author of the book “Playboyskool” and several other products that help regular guys like YOU become more successful with women and dating. He publishes a FREE online Dating Tips newsletter at

Make-up sex can be so exciting because prior to the evening (shall we say) turning hotly romantic, the upset that the couple was enduring was accompanied by the upset that was occurring in their bloodstreams: lots of epinephrine and adrenaline pumped from hormonal glands into both of their circulatory systems.

These “fight or flight” hormones are still physiologically in the blood as the fighting couple reaches a psychological place where they no longer want to make war on each other. As the negative emotions abate, their physical excitement levels remain high, while the desire to battle has disappeared. The post-anger couple, now more hopeful and optimistic, how responds to the “juice” (even including higher levels of testosterone in men and women) in their blood in a “make love not war” way passionately loving the one he/she passionately hated only moments ago.

I want to explain why make-up sex is exciting and illustrate why making up in the bedroom can be beneficial to repairing your relationship. I include the when, where and how make-up sex should happen.

As to the “When, where, and how” of make-up sex:

When: Instantly, quickly, before the autonomic nervous system neutralizes the alerting hormones and your glandular excitement level falls.

Where: Wherever “instantly” finds you tear at each other’s clothes and do it, hot, fast, and dirty, like animals in heat (before your ardor cools). Leave the restaurant instantly; attack each other in the car or drive home above the speed limit, getting into heavy petting as you drive. At home, go for each other at the front door, hot waiting for the bedroom. Keep that excitement level (and blood level) up by racing along to penetration and orgasm.

How: This is not a time for soft, emotional, “love” sex; rather, it is the time for hard, physical, “animal,” pure-lust sex (in order to maintain the hormone levels in the blood). Tenderness, love, and psychological caring will come after the orgasms, when your blood will be flooded with oxytosin, a hormone that is associated with bonding and emotional attachment.

Py Kim Conant is an author of “Sex Secrets of an American Geisha: How to Attract, Satisfy, and Keep Your Man” (Hunter House). Want free chapters of her book? Sign up for Py’s American Geisha Sex and Relationship newsletter to at AmericanGeishaHouse.com AmericanGeishaHouse.com

Valentines Day is always the season to share and express your love to your special someone. If you have not bought him or her special gift because you have no money left in your wallet, don’t get upset because you can always have one instantly.

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When it comes to wording your beach wedding invitations you want to come up with something that sounds great but that also conveys the location. Perhaps wording that says something like:

Start writing your toast
Because Anne and Mike
Will wed at the coast
On July 18, 2007
Fisherman’s Pier
Wrightsville Beach, North Carolina

Of course, that’s a very casual wording for wedding invitations and you might be looking for something that is a little more formal or not so much of a rhyme. You can go for a custom wedding invitation that is considerably more formal like traditional wedding invitation cards are. Here is a more formal example:

Mr. and Mrs. John Jones request the honor of
Your presence at the marriage of their daughter
Tiffany Rose
To
Jeremy Scott Smith
The fifth day of January
Two thousand and seven
At Myrtle Beach, South Carolina

Perhaps this isn’t your style either, and that is ok. Feel free to make up a beach themed invitation that is worded just the way you want. You may also search the Internet for other examples that you might use. Some people are exceptionally worried about etiquette and following it to a tee. If this sounds like you then use the web and wedding books to guide you when it comes to writing your own wedding invitations. If you don’t particularly care then write them whatever way makes you happy. Just keep in mind it is your wedding day and following at least a little bit of invitation etiquette is a good idea and something you won’t regret a few years down the road.

If you want something one of a kind that nobody else has ever had then consider hiring a poet to write your wedding invitations in a way that follows all the rules of etiquette but that also reflect your love for one another and your personalities. This could be a really fun way to have super special wedding invitations that nobody else has or will ever have. It might take a while to find somebody who could capture just what you want to say in a poetic way, but if this sounds like something you like then it really might be worth the effort. If you are working on a deadline though try and just find some wording you like and have the invitations printed as quickly as possible. You don’t want your guests to make other plans because you were worried about the invitation wording and didn’t get them out soon enough!

Natalie Aranda is a freelance writer. If you want something one of a kind that nobody else has ever had then consider hiring a poet to write your allthebestinvitations.com/ unique wedding invitations in a way that follows all the rules of etiquette but that also reflect your love for one another and your personalities. This could be a really fun way to have super special allthebestinvitations.com/ wedding invitations that nobody else has or will ever have.

Watch out for wedding crashers Andrea, Barry, Chantal, Dean, Erin, Felix, Gabrielle, Humberto, Ingrid, Jerry, Karen, Lorenzo, Melissa, Noel, Olga, Pablo, Rebekah, Sebastien, Tanya, Van, and Wendy. The wedding will not go according to plan if just one arrives at your ceremony. Those names are the 2007 names assigned to tropical storms when they form in the Alantic Ocean. The last thing you want to hear after all the hard work of planning a wedding is that Felix is coming and bringing 100 mph winds! This could be a likely scenario though for weddings in the eastern and southeastern parts of the country and the entire Gulf of Mexico coast. The hurricane forecast for the 2007 Atlantic season calls for 17 named storms with five of them being major hurricanes. For a tropical storm to be tagged with a name the winds have to be 39 mph or higher. The storm becomes a hurricane when the winds reach 74 mph. A major hurricane is when winds are 111 mph or higher. The season officially kicks off in the Atlantic June 1st and goes through November 30th peaking in early September. Just because the storm is named does not automatically mean it’s going to make landfall in the United States. But some of the latest trends should have brides and wedding planners taking notice.

Dr. William Gray, Philip J. Klotzbach, and William Thorson of Colorado State University have been issuing hurricane forecasts for years based on their research of global weather patterns. They are very respected in the forecast community. Their forecast is the one already mentioned for the 2007 hurricane season. But it’s the numbers below that are more alarming seeing how the clean up is still going on for Katrina which hit almost two years ago.

PROBABILITIES FOR AT LEAST ONE MAJOR (CATEGORY 3-4-5) HURRICANE LANDFALL ON EACH OF THE FOLLOWING COASTAL AREAS

1) Entire U.S. coastline - 74% (average for last century is 52%)

2) U.S. East Coast Including Peninsula Florida - 50% (average for last century is 31%)

3) Gulf Coast from the Florida Panhandle westward to Brownsville - 49% (average for last century is 30%)

4) Above-average major hurricane landfall risk in the Caribbean

A Category 3 storm has winds at 111 mph to 130 mph, a Category 4 storm packs winds at 131 mph to 155 mph, and in a Category 5 storm the winds are 156 mph or greater.

The temperature outlook for the early summer for the United States isn’t anything too shocking. The National Climate Prediction Center calls for above normal temperatures for almost all of the Southwest including eastern California, southern Idaho, all of Utah, and southwestern Colorado. More above normal temperatures can be expected in all of New Mexico except a small northeast area, through south central Texas, south central Louisiana, south central Mississippi, south central Alabama, south central Georgia, and south central South Carolina. North Carolina will have above normal temperatures east of I95 and all of Florida is expected to be above normal. Below normal temperatures are forecast for eastern Montana, all of North Dakota, northwest Minnesota, and a narrow area of northern South Dakota.

Precipitation forecast calls for normal weather conditions for all of the United States with below normal rainfall forecasts for Idaho from the Snake River south, all of Wyoming, west Colorado, all of Utah, an area from extreme southeast Oregon down through northeast Nevada, northeast Arizona, and northwest New Mexico.

It gets a little warm going into the late summer and early fall months with most of the country running above normal temperatures except eastern Montana, eastern Wyoming, eastern Colorado, northwest Kansas, northwest Iowa, all of the Dakotas, all of Minnesota, and all of Nebraska. The Carolinas will be under near normal as will eastern Kentucky, eastern Tennessee, all of Virginia, and eastern Georgia.

As far as the precipitation look for above normal conditions from central North and South Carolinas and areas to the coast, southern Georgia, and all of Florida. Below normal precipitation is forecast for Idaho, Oregon, northern half of Nevada and northern half of California for the late summer and early fall months.

So there you have it. This doesn’t mean not to plan a wedding along coastal regions. The purpose of this article is to bring attention to the weather when planning a wedding. This year when booking weddings in hurricane country a little extra attention to detail, like hiring an experienced wedding planner from the region to help you with a good back up plan for you and your guests if a hurricane crashes the party!

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I’ll bet you had a rush of optimism when you first started online dating. All those women, all advertising themselves as being AVAILABLE!

But statistics show that there are more men signed up with online dating sites than women. So right from the start, some men are going to lose out.

And most men are more focused initially on meeting ANYONE than a potential Ms Right and they send out messages to dozens or even hundreds of women.

That means that even fairly average-looking women are getting more messages than they can cope with.

So if you send out a message to your absolute favorite on the site, that message has to compete with many others. Don’t feel bad that she doesn’t reply. She has already realized that it’s impossible to reply to all the messages she receives, not even with the pre-written ‘brush off’ messages that some sites provide.

So you start to play the game too and send out multiple messages. And because you couldn′t possibly write an individual message to each woman, you send out so-called ‘carpet bombs′.

Hey - you have to realize right now that you are perpetuating your cycle of failure. The more messages you send, the less individualized they are and the less your chances of getting a date.

Yes… more messages = fewer dates!

I learned early on that it’s important to have a proper plan rather than act out of desperation. I describe in my book, ‘Online Dating Tips For Men’ on page 110 how you should divide women into five categories and send them different kinds of messages, with different degrees of individualization.

I follow that plan strictly because I know it gets results. But when I’ve done that and sent out all my messages for the week (I like to work to a weekly schedule so I know I’m not going to be overloaded with dates) I have some fun…

Yes you can have fun with messages. Typically I’ll have a beer to ‘loosen up’ my thought processes, then I’ll click through some profiles to find one that catches my interest.

And then I’ll very quickly fire off a one-sentence message based on something I’ve seen in her profile.

I′ll be quite cheeky sometimes - I don’t feel any pressure to succeed because I′ve already carried out my plan and I know I′m sure of dates. This is extra.

And you know what? These quick-fire messages often get the best response. And by being a little bit cheeky, I have already set a good ‘tone′ for the date.

It’s important to remember that carpet bombing doesn’t work. Don’t waste your time. Instead, form a plan, or use mine from ‘Online Dating Tips For Men’.

Send out messages selectively with the right degree of individualization. Send out some quick fire messages too.

Soon you will be able to work out statistics that tell you how many messages you need to send to get a date.

You know, so many men get hardly any dates through online dating, or even none at all. But it isn′t rocket science. An average kind of guy like me can get plenty of dates. You just have to know how to play the game.

About the author: After a ten-year marriage, writer Mike Thorpe found himself once again on the dating scene. His early difficulties with online dating led him to develop a framework with which any man can travel step-by-step from early ‘getting to you know′ with a woman all the way through to a successful relationship.

‘Online Dating Tips For Men’ is available as an e-book from online-dating-tips-for-men.com online-dating-tips-for-men.com

Details, details, details. Paying attention to details, that’s what makes a good wedding great. As the maid of honor or best man, a lovely send off for the newlyweds is a tastefully decorated car—announcing to the world “Here comes Mr. & Mrs. Happy Couple”!

Big Splurge
If you’re the best man and you have deep pockets, a wonderful wedding treat is splurging for a vintage or customized car for your pal. Match the car to the personality of the couple. Are they sporty and nuts about the outdoors? Rent a custom Hummer H-2. Are they refined Anglophiles? Find a Bentley Azure convertible to take them to their honeymoon in style. In Chicago, a Hummer goes for $399 per day with 100 free miles from rentexoticcars.com. Exotic Rentals has locations in many major cities and offers a wide selection. Contact the luxury rental car office in your area to find out about inventory.

Flowers
Think romance when deciding on car wedding decorations. Soaped up windows with “Donna and James Forever” and cans trailing off the back leaves a bit to be desired.

Contact the florist that was hired for the wedding and inquire about purchasing additional flowers to decorate the car. An antique car looks splendid with carefully placed ivy woven around the chrome details.

Ribbon & Bells
You don’t have to take all the fun out of car decoration. Bells and ribbons can be attached to the car calling attention to all who drive by. Try to pick ribbon in complimentary colors to the car. Tulle is another option. Purchase tulle by the yard and adorn the hood with a pretty bow.

For the most meager budget, a hand painted sign can be affixed to the trunk of the car spelling out the joyous news.

Balloons
Customize your balloons at a local party store. Have the bride and groom’s name and wedding date printed on colored balloons. Hide wedding car decorations during the reception and sneak out to affix the balloons to the car, be careful no to obstruct the driver’s vision!

Writing
If you must write on the car, be sure to select a glass marker for any personalize messages you transcribe as car wedding decorations. Soap or other non-specialized markers can damage paint and ruin a perfectly good honeymoon! Glass markers were uniquely designed to be applied to glass. The paint dries quickly and is removable with a damp cloth.

Execution
Step up to the plate and deliver an elegant departure for the happy couple. Scatter rose petals along the walkway to the car for the bride and groom. Have a chilled bottle of champagne waiting for them inside the backseat and perhaps a few nibbles of chocolate–the newlyweds were probably too busy dancing and greeting their guests to enjoy much of their own catering.

Take these suggestions for car wedding decorations and have fun. My most valuable tip is this, HIRE A DRIVER for your friends. They will be exhausted and perhaps under the influence of too many champagne toasts. Get them to their honeymoon safely and in style.

Nicole Feliciano is a professional writer based in New York with experience in travel and fashion writing and a regular contributor to wedding-decoration-idea.com wedding-decoration-idea.com